Anonymous #1 2w

You can have previous sexual partners as a young adult without having “slept around”, that’s such a weird way to talk about women who aren’t virgins. And it’s also perfectly ok to get some sexual experience during a time when you’re not ready to settle down, and then search for a life partner when you are, if men do it women can too

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Anonymous OP 2w

Unless it’s for religious reasons, I can only assume that the men who demand virgins are just insecure/jealous about their lack of experience, or want someone who’s more susceptible to abuse/manipulation and will be less likely to judge the man’s poor sexual performance, or both

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’m not saying men sleeping around is ok and for women it isn’t. I think there should be less for both sexes. I’m more talking about when women let any guy fuck but then when they are ready to settle down they make that guy jump through hoops. Why did you let those guys screw you easily but for this guy he has to do 20 things before there is even the thought

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Anonymous OP 2w

Demanding and preferring are two different things also

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Anonymous #1 2w

Why should it be less? As long as everything is safe and consensual there isn’t really an issue with enjoying casual sex. And there’s the jealousy I’m talking about… is she making you jump through hoops or does she just want some romance in this new stage of her life?

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Anonymous OP 2w

It always seems to come down to men being jealous that women seem to get sex easier than men and that her previous partners got what you want quicker than you. If you want a one night stand I can see why that would be an issue, but if you want a relationship why wouldn’t you want to spend time romancing her and building up to that kind of intimacy?

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Anonymous #2 2w

There are definitely a lot of men who expect it and belittle/harass/shame women who don’t fit that preference. Nothing wrong with wanting someone with a similar experience level but shaming people outside of your preferences for doing nothing wrong is just awful

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Anonymous OP 2w

That makes sense and yea I agree w you.

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Anonymous OP 2w

I hope you realize how dumb that sounds. So as an example you’re waiting in a line for a burger. The first 20 people are charged $1.00 for a burger. You go up to the counter and they charge you $20 for it. That’s what it is. Why do those first 20 people get the cheaper burger?

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Anonymous OP 2w

New stage of her life fuck that 🤣🤣 yeah she’s out of her h*e era and now she wants romance haha

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Anonymous #1 2w

Well for starters women aren’t objects you purchase. In the real world businesses often increase prices due to financial losses as well as just wanting to compensate their employees better or to make new advances in the business, the situation you’re describing is extremely unrealistic too so idk what kind of point you’re trying to make other than you being jealous of other men who get laid

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Anonymous OP 2w

Though I do like to emphasize to do it safely. I knew one girl who would get into really bad situations just cause she wanted to fuck casually often. She lost one of her teeth, got tattoos all over her, has gotten black eyes, broke really deep friend groups for guys we’d tell her not to go after, etc. I’m just saying that’s a lot for a 19 year old.

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Anonymous #1 2w

The fact that you only view women as either being 100% pure virgins or disgusting whores who sleep with countless men purposely wanting to take advantage of another man in the future is super gross

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Anonymous OP 2w

It is made up scenario that mirrors the situation. Yes women are not objects to purchase obviously I’m saying that is essentially what it is. Why do the guys before get to fuck in 2 minutes but now no no now it’s different. It’s moronic

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Anonymous #2 2w

I wouldn’t judge her for that though, that’s just a sad situation. I would assume she’s been struggling with some pretty big issues, I get it’s easy to be upset with someone for not taking advice but if we really care about people’s safety it’s best to just offer support when they need it yk

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Anonymous OP 2w

Women shame men for even wanting sex to begin with! Yet that’s ok right? Double standards at its finest

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Anonymous #1 2w

Again, this is the kind of jealousy I’ve been referring to. Clearly you don’t actually care about building a strong, loving relationship if all you want is to immediately hook up with a woman without caring about who she is or what her true past even is. You just hear she’s not a virgin and make assumptions about her

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Anonymous #1 2w

Nope, we do shame them for sexually harassing and assaulting women though. Wanting sex is natural and there’s nothing wrong with it!

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Anonymous OP 2w

Oh yeah ik we just let her do her thing. It was kind of sad cause she was mad at us for advising her not to do it, but she’s her own person and she’ll do what she wants. She doesn’t hate us or anything now, but we just don’t talk when we used to hang out a lot. Though I think that’s also for a different reason more tied to her persona which I won’t get into cause it’s irrelevant here

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Anonymous OP 2w

It’s not jealousy it’s questioning logic. I actually don’t care if a woman is a virgin or her body count. It’s not a big deal as long as everyone is consenting and safe then have fun. I actually want a wife. I’m questioning this logic. The logic is flawed

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Anonymous #1 2w

Clearly you care otherwise you wouldn’t be throwing a fit in my comments about how the guys before you had it easier or whatever lol. That is jealousy, sorry

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Anonymous OP 1w

Nope it’s all sexual desires. Why do you think there are multiple books on women exploring their sexuality and there’s like two for men. I’m not saying the harassing and assault is ok at all. But men are not praised for embracing their sexuality as much as women are

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Anonymous OP 1w

I don’t see how pointing out flawed logic is a fit but ok I’ll save my mental health and say you’re right sure. Yay for you

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Anonymous #1 1w

Nothings stopping men from writing about their experiences with their sexuality. And men are constantly praised for embracing their sexuality, it’s seen all the time in pop culture, tv, music, etc. A man and a woman could have sex and it’s viewed as something that’s done to a woman rather than a mutual act, she’s called used or cracked etc. In some cultures women are killed for having sex or being victims of rape

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Anonymous OP 1w

Women typically only get societal approval for sexual activity when it’s nonconsensual or a man’s fantasy to use her as a sexual object, when it’s her own choice it’s see as slutty or whorish etc

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Anonymous #1 1w

This is so fucking stupid btw women arnt burgers or objects they’re people with feelings and choices and her choices in the PAST should have nothing to do with you and how you treat them especially over something as stupid as casual sex get the fuck over yourself you sheltered loser

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Anonymous #4 1w

You do have the mental capacity to understand a hypothetical scenario right? I’ll say it cause I didn’t think it needed to be said. I KNOW GIRLS ARE NOT OBJECTS TO BUY. IT IS CALLED A HYPOTHETICAL SCENARIO TO EXPLAIN FLAWED LOGIC IN A DIFFERENT WAY. USE THE BRAIN I HIPE YOU HAVE. Also ok then if a guy sleeps around in his past it shouldn’t matter right? Oh wait it does. Also just fyi insults means you know I’m right and you just don’t know how to rebuttal or accept it.

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Anonymous #1 1w

Even in hypothetical scenarios your comparing an object to a woman and in any case is won’t work and you look stupid, and in 90% of cases guys have no consequences of sleeping around other than a high ego or popular public opinion as seen a million times over history. Hope this helps! - a real life woman

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Anonymous #1 1w

that is such an entitled, dog-like thing to say

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Anonymous #1 1w

A hypothetical only works if the things being compared are actually similar. Your analogy still treats relationships like a marketplace where someone is “getting a worse deal” because of what happened before them. That logic only works if sex is a commodity being sold, which it isn’t. People’s past relationships aren’t transactions and they don’t reduce the “value” of a person for someone else. So the analogy doesn’t explain anything, it just assumes the conclusion you’re trying to prove.

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Anonymous #4 1w

Or you know an STI. Or do those not affect men? Did I say I want to get rid of women’s freedoms? No actually I didn’t. If a woman wants to fuck around hey you do you. We have limited time in life. There are consequences to actions though. That’s like saying I murdered someone in my past but you know I don’t do it anymore so that’s all that matters. No that’s not how the world works. Also that’s great thing about opinions! Anyone can have them!

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So by using your own logic if I said my way of life is to enslave people and you argue against my way of life can I insult you?

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Anonymous #5 1w

Oh look at this: It’s all the fucks I give about you. Enjoy 🖤

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Anonymous #1 1w

Comparing a woman having consensual sex to murdering someone is insane and I don’t get how you don’t see that. And you know std tests exist right? Everyone should be getting tested anyway

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Anonymous OP 1w

For fuck sakes look up the term reductio ad absurdum. It’s what I was doing. See you get to learn something this month! Yay! Also they are called STIs now. They have been called that since 2021.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Already getting it but thanks for your concern I know you care

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Anonymous #1 1w

Murder to sex is hilarious btw ide love to see you and your mom have this debate

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I don’t hate the sex. I hate flawed logic. There’s a difference. And I actually prefer vagina thanks

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Anonymous #4 1w

It would actually go fine because unlike you she actually is intelligent. She taught her son well :)

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Anonymous #1 1w

Show her this debate if you really want reassurance than because WOOOF you’re a mysoginist piece of work

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Anonymous #1 1w

yall aren’t lonely enough

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Anonymous #5 1w

Oh don’t worry some of us are with men having the highest suicide rate! Also I’m fine because I have good friends and family :)

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