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Confessions 20h
Including my current partner, my body count is 19. I’m a straight woman. And guess what, no man I’ve ever been in a relationship with has bothered to question me about it and vice versa? Why? Cause it’s no one’s business who we sleep with. Haha incels
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Anonymous 19h

Congrats?

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Anonymous 20h

I mean while I do agree to some extent body count is whatever as long as everyone involved is clean and safe. It is kind of the person’s business if it’s one of their deal breakers in a relationship

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Anonymous 20h

i don’t think ppl are automatically incels for wanting someone with the same sexual discipline as them

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Anonymous 18h

Agreed. Dm me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

I disagree. No one’s business. That makes it my dealbreaker

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I think slut shaming makes someone an incel yes. “Sexual discipline” is already treading thin ice as it is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

If a person doesn’t want to be with someone with a high body count that’s ok. Me personally if I found out a girl I was dating was with 100 guys before me I’m not seeing her as long term relationship potential. That’s just how it is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

well, objectively speaking incel is just a man who is involuntarily celibate but that’s just semantics ig, either way imo ur bc reflects u don’t see sex the same way as someone with 0 or 1 like someone waiting for marriage. not saying that’s wrong btw!!just saying if someone wants someone else with the same view alignment that’s not odd

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3h

And if I was with a man who made it a big deal how many people I slept with, that would also be a dealbreaker for me, which is what I’ve already said. So it works out both ways

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3h

Sure I could agree with that but I still don’t appreciate the phrase sexual discipline. That was my only issue

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h

Right but like I’m saying it seems like just by even asking that’s a huge deal when literally it’s a question. There’s nothing wrong with asking it if it’s just to gauge compatibility

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1h

It’s a big deal to me but it doesn’t have to be to you right? Just like body count isn’t a big deal to me, but it is to you. Again, it goes both ways. If anybody who isn’t a doctor is that concerned about judging my sexual history, that’s an automatic dealbreaker. I don’t owe that explanation to anyone. I dont know his BC and he doesnt know mine and we’re happy that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1h

lol do you think I’m stupid? My DM‘s are off for a reason especially on posts like these.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33m

Who’s not a doctor? I’m not one and I took basic sex ed class and know basics of STIs. If a person has unprotected sex with 100 people they most likely have at least one

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