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Confessions 27w
people who can’t handle being single for more than a few weeks and constantly get into new relationships immediately after a break up are a walking red flag imo
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Anonymous 27w

I haven't been single since 6th grade and honestly it's all coincidence I s2g. I'm a long term dater though

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Anonymous 27w

I have been single for four years now and I am not planning to start dating again anytime soon.

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Anonymous 27w

As someone who did this from the age of 13-19 (3 back to back long term relationships) I have to agree. I thought I needed someone to love romantically at all times or my life would fall apart and I would feel alone forever. Turns out being single is fine though, I took like 6 months before I started a new relationship and honestly? This is the best relationship I’ve ever had, likely due to that time I gave myself.

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Anonymous 27w

Some of us just need a nut and don’t wana wait

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Anonymous 27w

Some of us are handsome and good looking, so we need to spread our seed to as many fine ladies as possible. It’s just biology, you wouldn’t understand it. I am an expert in science

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Anonymous replying to -> babyoilbandit 27w

lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 27w

proving my point babe

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Anonymous 27w

it has nothing to do with being/staying sad. it’s just weird you’re incapable of being single. if you move on that fast i assume you have poor judgment and are scared to be alone. if you can “find someone better” in a couple weeks you’re choosing bad people lol

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Anonymous 27w

it’s about being able to be comfortable while alone. if you can’t manage that, in my experience, you tend to be extremely codependent. you should be able to be okay on your own for a bit lol. i also don’t think you truly value the people you’re dating if you’re moving on that quick. or you’re just shallow and have low standards, which in that case go off ig

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Anonymous 27w

idk where you got the idea of me pining after someone who doesn’t like me back haha but that’s definitely not the case. i make guys wait and prove their worth before giving them a chance. jumping from one relationship to another feels gross and i don’t need to be dating someone to be happy. i find it odd when others need to always be in relationships

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Anonymous 27w

this also isn’t referring to an ex if that’s what you’re thinking hahaha. it’s directed at friends/family members who constantly get obsessed with new people, have their honeymoon phase, realize they’re not compatible, break up, and repeat the cycle with the next available person. it shows bad judgement imo and it annoys me watching the same preventable cycle over and over. it’s not jealousy it’s annoyance

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