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My bf had videos of him and his ex having sex, and he said he thought he deleted all of them, but two of them were saved to his phone while we were dating, I deleted them all completely and they will never be able to be recovered…should I feel bad?
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Anonymous 2w

Not at all. If he’s annoyed about it, then there’s an issue because he obviously knowingly had them at that point

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Anonymous 2w

nope. dont feel bad even one bit girl you deserve better than that. but you should have a conversation and get to the bottom of things because he doesn’t sound fully truthful

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I had multiple and he swears on his life that he thought he deleted everything, and he has no idea how the recently saved ones (Dec 1 and 15) got saved to his phone and I said I don’t know how to feel because they were in his hidden folder, and it’s one thing to accidentally save a video, but another to go through the extra effort to hide it yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

He isn’t mad I went through his phone or anything and instead said he wouldn’t want anyone to ever go through what I’m feeling and that he feels so bad and would understand if I didn’t believe him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You know his character better than anyone else. Personally I had stuff saved from my ex in my hidden folder and I completely forgot about them until I went to go put new photos in that folder. So he could be genuine but that’s all up to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

It’s just that the three most recent ones in there were saved in December and we were dating…it just makes my gut feel weird to think abt

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