I always say it’s a personal decision. Personally for me, I’ve always been as stubborn as my mom. I’m gonna wait cause I feel like it’s the ultimate gift you can give someone to show that you really mean what you say by “I love you”. You’ve never loved anybody else that way. I’ve been super drunk and asked if I wanted to fuck (I am a guy btw), but my answer is always the same: waiting till marriage.

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Two fold, i understand the nobility and restraint. But you should understand that its almost never good the first time so you can feel a lot of regret if you lost years waiting for that On the flip side, because its bad, you might regret doing it early vs waiting. I think just find someone you actually like and be sure you want to lose it to them

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have a relationship with the person but yes before marriage. you might not be sexually compatible and it would suck to have to deal with the rest of your life if you’re already married

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please don’t wait. I mean don’t be a slut, be reasonable, be smart, take care of yourself. But don’t wait for the arbitrary wedding day. The first time will never live up to your expectations and you don’t want to put it on a pedestal for the rest of your marriage. Ok, rant over

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