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Confessions 2w
my bf is super vanilla and i hate it i just wanna have rough kinky sex for once
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Anonymous 2w

do you KNOW hes vanilla? Have you guys talked about this or expressed your desire for rougher sex?

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Anonymous 2w

if you’re not compatible sexually that’s a good sign you should move on. bc assuming you’re monogamous he’s the only person you have a sexual relationship with so it better be everything you need

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Anonymous 1w

Foreplay I believe is how to ease into what you are into. So do that and explore what he likes which then will get him to explore what you like.

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Anonymous 2w

Just ask him if he is willing to watch and learn. Then find a Dom who would do that to you while he watches

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

anytime i ask him to be more intense and even tell him what i want he doesn’t seem to receptive/open to most if not all of the things i want him to do to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

can you give me an example of how these conversations go?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

wtf this is horrible advice😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Why is it bad advice when I specifically said ask him first? Everything here will be consensual and a learning experience.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

its bad advice because you're telling someone to ask their partner if they can fuck someone else. How stupid are you

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