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when did it become normalized for women to pack their bfs/husbands lunch… like he’s a grown man? why isn’t he doing that himself? unless he’s packing her lunch too i just don’t get it
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Anonymous 18h

patriarchy

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Anonymous 18h

I mean without any context, it is just kind of a sweet thing, like the husband could do the same thing for his wife and no one would bat an eye, but yeah patriarchy ruins everything

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Anonymous 18h

i think it’s just a nice thing to do idk

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Anonymous 14h

idk why i can’t reply to 4 but thank youuu i also realized as i was commenting and stuff that what really annoyed me was people acting like she didn’t love him just bc she didn’t pack his lunch lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

i think it’s a post ww2 think alongside the nuclear family yk. husband goes off to work, wife stays home and has to take care of the kids and cook and stuff yk that’s why it’s normalized. but that’s all like suburbia propaganda bullshit yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

yeah it’s def nice ig i just dont get why its expected. like hes a grown man he should be able to pack his own lunch. it just seems like such a weird outdated thing to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Oh yeah it being expected is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

no you’re so right. i just think it’s weird when a woman says she doesn’t do that and everyone acts like she hates her husband :/

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 18h

yeah it’s not even really someone doing it that i care about bc it’s very sweet but it’s the response when a woman doesn’t do it that weirds me out. why are people acting like he’s going to starve, he’s a grown man he can figure out his food situation like every other adult 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

nah that’s not what that means women work significantly more now than they did in the 50s so it’s less common but it’s still thoughtful to pack lunch for your partner i just wish women weren’t the only gender who usually did it and it was less of a requirement

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Yeah I agree Especially if both people are working they could like do rotations of who packs lunch when Or if one isn’t a very good cook then they can just not cook and take care of something else, although you should be able to make food because before you lived together you had to have been getting food from somewhere lol Ultimately everyone should do whatever is best for their individual relationship

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Anonymous 14h

ig you could interpret it like that if you were looking for something to get upset about

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Anonymous 14h

if you read literally any of my comments you’d see i didn’t but 🤷‍♀️ if you wanna be mad you can be mad

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Anonymous 14h

I think she means for two working adults Why is it normalized for the woman to do all the cooking and packing? Unless they are working like a team where wife packs one day and husband packs the other day

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