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Confessions 1w
Sometimes I say something about someone else and then realize it was rude or distasteful and I feel really bad even if it was small
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Anonymous 1w

don’t judge me for this i realized my mistake and feel awful about it. but i talked shit ab this one guy for his mannerisms and being weird like in a creepy way and this and that. and then it hit me. he’s autistic. like obviously autistic idk how i didn’t realize from the beginning. and then i felt so bad like he’s not creepy or weird on purpose he’s autistic 😭i felt so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i went to both people i had talked about it with and told them i had just realized that he was and told them how bad i felt and apologized lmao. idk how to describe the dude other than he gave the vibes of dandy mott from ahs

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

For me the other day this girl was saying how her roommates boyfriend is shitty and then she showed us a photo of him, and I said “he’s way below her league” and then a couple other people in the group said “he’s not a bad looking guy” and I realized that I was just kinda mean. Also a few years ago a guy showed me a picture of someone and I said “ew” and I still feel bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i saw something one time (years ago, can’t remember where) that said your first thought that comes to mind is what you’ve been trained to think. the second is what you actually think. that makes me feel better a lot of times bc sometimes my initial thought is mean

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