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I wish I wasn’t so obsessed with my crush bc its so clearly one sided but I’ve imagined a whole future with us together and like,,,, i know none of that will ever happen. On some level I don’t want it to happen right now. But let a guy dream damnit.
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Anonymous 3w

Same

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Anonymous 3w

Literally the worst pain ever. I fumbled so badly that instead of asking her if she wanted to get coffee for a study break, she rejected me and moved on. Now she won’t stop staring at me since I downstocked barrel.

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Anonymous 3w

My issue is that he refuses to admit he likes me because he’s scared of commitment and won’t give me a chance. But everyone else agrees with me that we’d be the perfect couple, including his family, but he just pushes me away. And it sucks because we genuinely are perfect for each other and have the same values and wants and beliefs and want the same feature and he agrees with me that we have chemistry but he won’t give me a damn chance

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Anonymous 3w

not to make you delulu or anything but i felt this exact way w my crush in high school and then in college we dated for 3 years sooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

That really does suck. There’s a chance that he only thinks y’all have chemistry to be friends though. Obviously he could also be avoidant. But you should prepare yourself for a real rejection or move on right now, because you probably deserve better than someone who won’t give you a shot. Your choice at the end of the day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He knows we have chemistry as more. We were on and off fwb for 2 years. And he knew we had chemistry like that. And now he wears bracelets I made him, stays on the phone with me while I have panic attacks, and we literally matched costumes just us for a holiday. And we’re going on vacation just us and one other person. He refused to admit he likes me though. But you don’t do that if you don’t like someone. He knows we’d be good together but he just won’t give it a chance. And I’ve tried to move

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

On before, we weren’t friends for a year and I couldn’t move on becuase I would unconsciously compare anyone else to him and they’d never be better. Our values and morals and beliefs just wouldn’t line up the way they do with him. It can’t get better than him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

STOP PLS I CSNT TAKE TBIS RNNN

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I promise you he’s probably not that unique

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

And time heals. You need to nip finding someone like him in the bud, eventually it’ll be a day, a week, a month, a year of not thinking about him

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Part of my post is that I don’t truly want anything with them. I’m lonely and have latched onto them as a fantasy, which is probably something i should work on, esp bc they said they’re also not looking for anyone rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He is though. I’ve never met anyone else like him. He stayed in the ER with me all day after I had a seizure, he gave me my shot that I needed to get and sat with me for 45 minutes because I was scared, he understands me because he’s been through it all too. We’re too bonded and no one else would be like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Ur real tho. I relapsed recently into my crush and today I had a very vivid daydream and I felt terrible about it cause it won’t be real and it’s all fake

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Some of these things are just what good friendship entails, imo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

We weren’t friends for a year and I was totally done with him and thought I was okay but I wasn’t. Time can’t heal this one. A year didn’t even start to make it okay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

They’re different than just a good friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I get that so so much

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t like that assumption. I do similar things with my girl platonic friends and am not gay….

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I just don’t see them that way

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Anonymous 3w

Nooo, he’s very much straight. His best friend is gay and he’s rejected him multiple times. And he very much enjoys hooking yo with me. Just won’t date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

See he also doesn’t really have any other platonic girl friends. There’s one who is like his little sister and she’s also gay and then in basically his only other female friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

no and that’s totally valid and emotionally mature and aware of you 🙏🙏

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