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This will never play in your favor. This attitude leads to self sabotage and eventually if they do leave you, it's not because you weren't good enough, it's because nothing they said or did was good enough for you to believe they actually wanted you
My girlfriend is out of my league and I feel insecure that I’m not enough
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Anonymous 20h

100% this is exactly what happened to my ex I had to constantly reassure him that he was enough and I loved him with my whole soul but he never believed me. He was so insecure to the point he convinced himself she’ll leave me anyway and just started treating me like crap so I did. This thinking never goes anywhere good and if he would’ve just trusted me I wouldn’t have left him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Happened with mine too lol at a certain point I'm just not interested in essentially being called a liar all the time like you either believe me or you don't and if you don't, what are we doing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

And yeah they always just start being awful like it's so annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Literally! Like I get reassuring your partner but it gets to a point where it’s like you are just calling me a liar and it’s not even doing anything anymore

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