Anonymous #3 4w

u will probably be stuck at home forever working some shitty job to get by if u keep it i’m gonna be 100% real like if you don’t want it NO one has to know

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Anonymous #3 4w

ur life is no longer ur own it will entirely be about the baby

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Anonymous #3 4w

some of my family is against abortion so i just think id feel extremely guilty, ik im definitely not ready to have a child and i dont wanna put the kid through foster care. fuck

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Anonymous #4 4w

Absolutely disgusting coming in here trying to spread hope and joy while simultaneously using the term “anti-life” Fuck off

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Anonymous OP 4w

at the end of the day you are the person experiencing your life and no one else does, u are stuck in that body experiencing everything firsthand for as long as you live NO ONE ELSE. don’t you dare do something as monumental as throwing your entire future out the window to please other people. it’s going to be so so hard no matter what you do, but please know that you will be severely limited forever if you choose to keep it and your life will no longer be yours

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Anonymous OP 4w

everyone wants a new baby in the family but hardly ever support the mama, check in on her, do anything for her while she’s pregnant - they just want to see the cute lil baby. please listen to me when i say this 😭 your life will no longer be yours, and you will be stuck in some shitty job and living situation to pay for this child. you DONT have to do it if you aren’t ready and no one has to know. if ur family will shun you if u don’t keep it? guess what? u don’t have to tell anyone!

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Anonymous #1 4w

What do u call it then

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Anonymous #1 4w

I just said do whatever feels right n just giving my opinion abt it

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prioritize YOUR life and future it is way more important than the future of a baby that isn’t even developed yet. please don’t throw your life away just because of what others are going to think!

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Anonymous #4 4w

U just said “womp womp shouldn’t have risked it then” fuck off u do not care for OP’s wellbeing

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Anonymous #5 4w

please !! op please be realistic too. the economy is not friendly to the consumer right now. if ur without a degree the most realistically u could make is $25 an hour if u live in a good state w/ zero degree or trades. assuming you’ll probably drop out of the college ur in to have this child. there are zero places in this country where you can afford your own place with $25/hr. the stress of 2-3 jobs while pregnant? absolutely not. you will live with your parents for the foreseeable future

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Anonymous #3 4w

and the child will likely not have parents as present as they should be for their development because of how often you will have to be at work. You just don’t have to put yourself through that

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Anonymous #3 4w

Do u even care abt the poor baby that's inside?

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Anonymous #3 4w

She asked for ideas I gave mine why u so mad abt my opinion gosh

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Anonymous #4 4w

no actually I don’t

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Anonymous OP 4w

Fuck your family. They’ve probably had abortions too, especially the ones you think will judge you. But, they won’t judge you bc they’ll never find out!!!

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Anonymous OP 4w

And those family members against abortion are unhealthy dumb fucks who also wouldn’t support you doing other things to better yourself. They’re losers and the last fucking thing you should care about is making those sad fucks happy.

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Anonymous OP 4w

ur family doesn’t have to know that u got an abortion it’s private information prioritize ur own life regardless of anyone opinions

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Anonymous #11 4w

Pregnancy test sweet summer child

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Anonymous #13 4w

😱a baby💐🎁💝

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Anonymous #9 4w

talked to the father and basically he said he doesn’t want anything to do with it and doesn’t care what happens..so that being said i think i’m gonna make an appointment. thank you to most of you for your kind words

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Anonymous OP 4w

Girl, thank you for making the incredibly hard decision to abort rather than bringing a child into this world only for them to end up in a broken system. You not only thought about what was best for you, but what was best for the potential child and at the end of the day, that is a clump of cells with zero feeling, and you are a real person with a life that you deserve control over your life 🫶🏻🫶🏻 I hope things go as smoothly as possible

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Anonymous #4 4w

Better to regret not having a child than to regret having one because then you have a child that may never be properly loved or may always feel like an inconvenience and that’s not fair to them or the Mom

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Anonymous #12 4w

read the room

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Anonymous #4 4w

It’s actually not a baby it’s a clump of cells that lack the cognitive ability to feel pain or emotion

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Anonymous #15 4w

If you ever talk to an older woman who has aborted their baby you would probably change your mind about this. Most of them are to depressed to even mention it ever happened. But it leaves them eternally scarred. I know a lady who grew up in the leave to beaver era and her parents made her abort her baby. She is almost 80 and has regretted everyday since then.

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Anonymous #11 4w

I looked it up since 1970- over 60 million babies were aborted. Keep the baby!

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