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Confessions 10w
Bf made a joke about settling for me so I’m leaving him lol
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Anonymous 10w

ew gross why’d he do that

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Anonymous 10w

If my man said this his stuff would be in the hall within the next hour

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Anonymous 10w

YUCKKYYYYYY

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Anonymous 10w

If it’s an actual joke that’s overboard. Both my girl and I joke about how we settled for each other and it’s funny as hell. If he ment it, break up. If it’s a joke, get a sense of humor.

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Anonymous 10w

I don’t blame you. With jokes like that, there’s always a little bit of truth in them.

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Anonymous 10w

What was it

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Anonymous 10w

Women try not to overreact impossible edition

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Anonymous 10w

Weird but idk if it’s genuinely worth breaking up over… was the context super insulting?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10w

Earlier that day he also joked that I was lucky to have him. Right after I paid for his haircut. & this has been a pattern in our relationship. He continuously hides behind jokes or will just straight up tear me down & make fun of my body through his jokes. I was just fed up overall 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I would leave then. It’ll only get worse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Exactly my point lol 😭Who makes two jokes in one day insinuating they can do better to their partner? I would never joke about that at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Oh, two?!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Yeah he joked that I was lucky to have him then later made the joke about settling for me. Like damn okay 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Let us know how the breakup goes

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

It wasn’t too bad. Of course he tried to guilt trip me & make me feel like I’m overreacting but idc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

If it was a one time thing it would be okay but he has a pattern of tearing me down through jokes. He’s joked about my skin colour numerous times, about my height, voice, genitalia. He mocks me a lot. & I’ve already told him before I question his attraction towards me. So to then joke about setting for me cut deep.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

How long were you two together anyway? You don’t seem too heartbroken over this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

settling *

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 10w

Almost 3 years. I’m very heartbroken. But at the same time my self esteem has suffered in this relationship so I’m kind of numb.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ahhh, I’m sorry to hear that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ohh shit. That changes things! He is dating you as his vanity project!!!

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