my bf is always saying i need to tell him what i want/need but then gets confused when i get upset when my needs aren’t being met even after ive told him exactly what i want and how to do it
Sometimes direct communication isn’t enough. Long thoughtful conversation, often with self-reflection, rewording and explanations on both sides is necessary. Understanding is what’s ultimately important.
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Anonymous2d
Life’s to short for mediocre sex
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Anonymous2d
Tell us exactly what you told him, word for word. Some people seem to have a tendency to say they communicate while actually not saying SPECIFICALLY what they want.
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Anonymous#32d
messages are too long for yy but i give him literal step by step directions and tell him exactly what i want he will then talk about how he’s on board and will do them then never dose