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Confessions 10w
My gf told me that months ago while we were dating she kissed this girl (they were drunk) that she's hung out with a few times they go to school together and aren't very close at all is this cheating and is it something I should end the relationship over?
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Anonymous 10w

Def cheating bro and she continued to do it that’s not cool yall should def have a conversation about how that makes u feel. Im sure if u told her you’ve been kissing the homies when you’re drunk she’d freak out

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Anonymous 10w

Yes it’s cheating. You don’t need to end the relationship over it. There’s a very good chance that they’re attracted to each other, but perhaps not. I’d say that she should distance herself from the friend out of respect at least for a while. If she’s unwilling to do that then it may be time to consider ending the relationship because it shows a lack of respect for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I just don’t know how to handle this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

It also wasn’t a one time thing happened twice on two different occasions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yea that makes things worse. You need to talk to her about distancing herself from that friend cuz she is cheating on you everytime she kisses her. Also there’s a chance there’s more times you don’t know about.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

If you want to breakup & see then you should, that’s cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I don’t want to break up but this can’t happen again and should I trust that it wouldn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I don’t fully trust it. She has to earn your trust back.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Do you think I should dump her I don’t even know what I should say without threatening to break up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You clearly care about this woman so try not to make any impulsive emotion based decisions. But take a minute to find the language for how this situation makes you feel and then give her that language

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

We are about to be long distance too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

get outta there man. She’ll do it again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

She said it was a peck they also slept in the same bed that night

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