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Confessions 20h
Is 19 and 25 weird…?
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Anonymous 20h

i think it would stop being as weird once you’re either 21 and 27 or like 22 and 28

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Anonymous 20h

yeahhh

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Anonymous 20h

sadly yes! The reasoning being is after 21-22 you go through your second major brain development… So they are 100% more aware and conscious than you which means theres a greater chance they are manipulating you. And or they lack self awareness and would make a terrible partner…

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Anonymous 20h

Yes

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Anonymous 20h

I don’t think it’s weird at all! My man and I are 21 (me) and he’s turning 29 next month. We started dating right before my 20th birthday so I was still 19 at the time. Not weird at all hun! Don’t listed to number 3.

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Anonymous 20h

No one has anywhere to talk about age gaps. Everyone cheers Hollywood age gap relationships, like Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon but when it comes to the peasants it’s not okay. Do what makes you happy cause the double standards are bs

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Anonymous 18h

If you have to ask if it’s weird then it is

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Anonymous 13h

Not at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

My opinion is after graduating college bc why are you late 20s and dating a college student

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

Theres a weird mental difference I didnt believe until I grew up. Its definitely there between 22 and 19 so I can only imagine for 25 and 19… Also the final major brain development stage is around 24-26. So its even possible they are fully developed praying on a developing young adult…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I agree, bc I’m 23 and couldn’t comprehend dating someone who’s 19 its too much of a difference

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

I mean I don’t cheer it and when they started dating nick cannon was 28 and at that point idc you’re mature enough to date someone 10 years older

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Mariah Carey is almost 60. Same thing with bellicheck and whatever her name is. While you might be one the world stood on “so glad they found happiness.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

She was 38 btw, and even if she was 60 the world’s opinion of celebrity relationships doesn’t affect what’s actually ok. I’m not against a 19 year old dating a 25 year old bc I’m judgy, I’m against it for the 19 year olds sake

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

tbf they could also be a college student

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