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I’m hypersexual but beyond scared of having sex and lowk disgusted by it
324 upvotes, 22 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "I’m hypersexual but beyond scared of having sex and lowk disgusted by it"
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Anonymous 4w

i hate my relationship with sex i lowkey want to stop but i have a boyfriend and he’d probably be pissed

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Anonymous 4w

I was like this until I found my gf. I realized I just get the ick easily and I’m unable to have sex with someone I don’t really like emotionally

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Anonymous 4w

Twin

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Anonymous 4w

REAL finally someone who understands

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Anonymous 4w

I give this a Yeah

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Anonymous 4w

i literally wanna fuck every attractive dude i see. i’m not proud of it and honestly i’m scared of intimate relationships. so i may just be cooked.

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Anonymous 4w

i was like this especially after i experienced a traumatic sexual event but then i met my bf and i literally want to have sex with him all the time, ik that’s freaky but the right person will make you feel comfortable and will take their time. also if you’re scared of sex (which isn’t scary if the other person cares), but want to still do sexual things you can, a bunch of people do bc they want to wait till marriage or don’t want to risk pregnancy

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Anonymous 4w

Mood

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Anonymous 4w

I’d give sex a shot if I was really really sure they knew how to have fun with it but all I’ve heard from friend is 90% negative reviews

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Anonymous 4w

I haven't been touched in years, I feel like I am going to die soon

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Anonymous 4w

Felt

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Anonymous 4w

Need your mentality cause I’m a sex addict

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Anonymous 4w

This actually is a contradiction

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

at least I ain’t the only one!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I hope it gets better for you! have a convo w your bf, if he can’t handle you not liking sex, you might need to drop him

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Anonymous 4w

i disagree with this. if he’s mature he’d just leave. sexual compatibility is pretty important

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

that’s a weird thing to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

bro couples not having sex indicator of a not good relationship. and every relationship expert says exactly what i say- sexual compatibility is a huge factor in a relationship working out or not. if you don’t like that then that’s a you issue

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Anonymous 4w

nah i just know about relationships. literally look up the importance of sexual compatibility. also if you don’t want to have sex w your partner and you’re not asexual you’re probably not into them lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

false people can not have sex there’s a whole religion where people don’t have sec till marriage, also this might not be a compatibility thing she could be in pain from having sex or not want to get pregnant, the sex is probably good and they probably are compatible but she just wants to stop for her own reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

bro are you a child 😭😭😭 basic understanding of sexual compatibility: if they’re waiting till marriage they probably will see if they’re compatible after they marry lmao. there are multiple ways to not get pregnant. she doesn’t want to have sex with her bf which means there are underlying issues.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

Extremely important. And he doesn’t have to stay in a relationship he will be miserable in

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