
if it’s something that runs contrary to your moral / ethical beliefs, make a point of educating yourself about the specific harms relevant to it, or (if there’s a safe way to do so!) force yourself to develop negative associations with it by looking at upsetting imagery containing aspects of the fetish
context: I trained myself out of having a kink for military uniforms by deliberately focusing on how a lot of the imagery I found appealing was specifically emulating nazi aesthetics. that fact was repulsive enough that over time I just naturally stopped finding uniforms so attractive