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Confessions 14h
my biggest fear is becoming a wife & mother in a family where nobody helps me out with anything, nobody gives af about my feelings, and im a maid for everybody else until the day i die
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Anonymous 13h

If you’re single right now you need to do the work to make sure this NEVER happens. Like this is some shit worth spending time being very intentional about.

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Anonymous 14h

yup

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Anonymous 14h

but also why my mom crazy when I’m helping her

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Anonymous 4h

Reminds me this Lindsey Clancy case

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

moms r weird man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

agreed! im therapy, journaling, and self reflecting🤔 relationships dont really seem worth it to me so ive been single for a while

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Yes. Figuring out exactly what ur desires are. Reflecting on what u (may) have accepted in the past. What ur parents relationship is like. Understanding feminism and the realities women face due to misogyny today. Understanding patriarchy and sexism in all its forms including benevolent. Everything.. because the alternative is hell on earth.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I’m so happy to hear that you are single tbh💖 it’s a great time to be single- every woman needs her single period to understand that life is great when you are on your own- and that you should only get with someone if they ADD to your life. Being emotionally attached to a shitty guy or dating without ever being single for long fr blinds you.

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