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The only way I’d be fine with hooking up is if actual sex wasn’t involved. Because then I don’t have to feel guilty about having a “body count” or lie to protect myself from judgement from men 😍
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Anonymous 14h

What would be the point of hooking up then?

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Anonymous 14h

“actual sex” is not just PiV. People regularly hook up without that. Are gay ppl not having “actual sex” like this is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Sexual satisfaction..? Most women don’t cum from penetration anyways so why not just skip over that and keep your body count the same?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Well when you say hookup but no sex it sounds like saying “I want to breathe but not inhale or exhale”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Sorry I didn’t specify that level of nuance in my random post about wanting to experience my sexuality without shame

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Technically you can still respire without your lungs but I get what you mean I want to have sex without adding to my body count, and there are more than one ways to have sex than getting something put inside me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Like oral sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

It’s not my favorite thing but I’d be open to it if they gave me some dry humping

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Or something else I’m interested in to make it more equal

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