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It’s really fucking weird when the guy who abuses you is super nice to you just for your birthday. Like why can’t he be like that all the time?
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Anonymous 1d

They’re doing it so you’ll stay. Listen to your gut, not anyone else’s

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Anonymous 1d

That‘s the ✨cycle of abuse✨. He’s trying to put you back into the honeymoon phase to keep you engaged. Girl, don’t fall for it. He‘ll just go back to his old ways, only to pull the same move when you threaten to leave because of his abuse. If you have any ability to leave now or as soon as possible, run and don’t look back.

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Anonymous 1d

I’ve experienced the opposite w abusers where they get extra mean during bdays

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Well damn. I guess I’m glad to not have that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m sorry he was only performative for your bday

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

The super fucked up thing is that it didn’t even feel performative. It felt so real today.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I don’t think that’s the only reason he’s nice

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Even if he’s not being nice purely manipulatively, you should never have to tolerate physical or emotional abuse. He might have feelings for you, but that’s not the same as love. Someone who truly loves you would never try to hurt you

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