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Is 30 minutes enough?
How long do a let a hookup stick around at my place after we finish? I just wanna know so I have an appropriate time frame to let them stay till I ask them to go
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Anonymous 4w

i’d do 45 so theres enough time for aftercare

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Anonymous 4w

I think it depends on if it was a one night stand or you’ve seen the person more than once. I would leave immediately or the person I was with was on the same level and left immediately.

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Anonymous 4w

It really depends on the specific circumstances and if I’ve been drinking. If she looks like a cow 🐮 I picked up outside the zoo I’m kicking her to the curb after 5 minutes and spending the rest of the time in the shower. Usually though I give up to 45 minutes to an hour.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

30 is enough time for aftercare

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

not really

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

How, that’s a decent piece of time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Maybe for you I guess, honestly I feel the best with 45 minutes- an hour of aftercare

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I just don’t want them sticking around for too long

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 4w

This’ll be our first time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like meeting wise

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh then for sure communicate the expectations.

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