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I wanna be friends with this guy but I don’t want it to come off as flirting. Is baking for him flirting?
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Anonymous 1d

Definitely comes off as flirting

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Anonymous 1d

it’s a very intimate thing to do for another person so be sure your message that yall are platonic is very fucking clear

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Anonymous 1d

Baking for him specifically can come across as flirting. Baking for a group he’s a part of can come across more discrete.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

like ‘spell “i’m a lesbian” on the cupcakes’ clear

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

lol well I’m not a lesbian but he knows I’m engaged already

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Okay I’ll keep that in mind

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

oh then you’re fine, so long as you know he respects that you’re not romantically available

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