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How are people genuinely getting huzz šŸ’” everyone I pull is a old man trying to get into my pants
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Anonymous 16h

are you approaching at all? because in full honesty it’ll more than likely be an older guy or more confident guy who approaches you. the ā€œsofterā€ looking ones or younger looking ones are prob not gonna be as confident. I speak in experience bc i have some feminine features and still look 16 lmao

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Anonymous 16h

Tbh it is so area dependent istg. When I’m in my home town in the USA it’s the same thing as you but when I go back Europe the men that come up to me are so fine. Unfortunately location is impoetant

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Important* not saying you gotta go to Europe but there is different beauty standards everywhere and depending where you fit it most is what I’ve noticed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

No yea that’s so real tho I noticed that too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

I have been told I come off more intimidating 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

i’m actually from italy and this is so so true. I feel like everyone was a lot more personable where I was from. I don’t know ab too many of the other countries, but not everyone was crazy over instagram followers and shi like that as they are in the US. it’s a lot less digital over there if that makes sense. ofc people text on platforms, but that’s apart of life now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Yess that is true, the more followers you have the more they assume you’re more ā€œattractiveā€ lowkey

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

yeah if someone’s attracted to you in any way, you are prob gonna be intimidating to them. it’s just ab how confident ppl are themselves. in which most cases ppl aren’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

EXACTLY. i’m glad you understood me and my yap wasn’t for nothingšŸ”„šŸ”„ so fye

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

I just find it so weird tho cus I feel as tho im not intimating at all personality wise

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

and you do seem cool. but no one knows each others personality if they don’t speak in the first place duhhhh. a lot of people find love interests from school, sometimes work, etc. places where you are eventually forced to talk. believe me. guys are NOT looking the other way because they’re like ew. it’s literally just intimidation bc it’s just 2 randoms with nothing to say. only thing yk ab each other at that time is just first looks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Ok tyy that makes me feel better šŸ˜­ā¤ļø

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I also lived in Italy for a bit and I noticed this too!! People are much more open and less on their phones from what I noticed I felt like a lot of people tried to find entertainment in others rather than just like through scrolling online like how I feel a lot of people do in the USA. Atleast where I was at

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

fs. ik it’s way easier said than done, but i appreciate the conversation lmaooo. no more old men right?…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Oooo yea.. never wanted them in the first place 😵

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

mic dropped.šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ’ÆšŸ’Æ

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

what part did you live in? not that it matters, i’m just curious! i’m born in vicenza so you might not know what that is. but you’re totally totally right. i loved italy but i really do love the US as much as people crap on it. the people here are awesome. there’s just soooo many assholes ofc lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Wait that’s cool I have friends near you in padova!! I was half the time in Lugano svizzera and then the other half in sienna!

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