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Confessions 4d
Constant victim mentality is exhausting
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Anonymous 4d

Really depends on the situation for me Some people are genuinely victims

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Anonymous 4d

Everyone goes through shit a lot of times horrific stuff. You can’t help what happens to you you can help what you do from there

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Anonymous 4d

Idk I think people are allowed to be the victim. Yes be growth oriented, but also realizing that you are in fact the victim can be a VERY important part of that process.Growth is important but so is grace, can’t healthily do so without it. For some people, realizing their role is what allows them to give theirselves grace. Someone else being a “more valid” victim doesn’t erase that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I mean absolutely I was a victim of abuse but you cannot let it control your life it took years of therapy and help for me to get back on track but it needs to be done. Nothing wrong with getting help but to stay in that mindset for the rest of your life will ruin you

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