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I made my ex break up with me and pissed her off all because I found out her entire family has a health problem or disease or issue , not one member in my family does …. , am I wrong for this? I just don’t want my kids having the same issues
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Anonymous 13h

disgusting of you to do. she dodged a fucking nuke

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Anonymous 13h

If you cannot accept your kid being Disabled, you are not ready to parent.

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Anonymous 12h

this is kind of crazy

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Anonymous 8h

Everyone that disagrees should adopt a disabled child

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Anonymous 9h

You’re not wrong. Don’t listen to all these hypocrites comments, none of them would date marry or have kids with someone who had schizophrenia or herpes.

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Anonymous 13h

^^^ this is what I meant

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Anonymous 13h

I feel like this is too weird to be ragebait tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I mean ofc it it happens by accident nothing you can’t control but if you don’t want to purposefully birth a child with a disability that’s okay? Why PURPOSEFULLY give it a bad life

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

Being disabled is not a bad thing. You need to work on your ableism. You’re not ready to be a parent, period.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

As someone who literally has a disability it sucks and I’m not going to be a parent because what I have will pass it onto my children and I already suffer from a lot of pain I don’t want to do that to a kid so yes I’m not going to be a parent. And no being disabled isn’t a good thing??? What are you taking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

If you plan to have a kid knowing you have no prior health conditions and it still comes out disabled that’s something everyone should be prepared for because anything can happen. But purposely bringing a child into the world with a health issue you know will pass down is selfish. It ruined my quality of life it’s horrible to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

Shit, you’ve got a lot of internalised ableism to work through, too. That’s just sad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

You are right, but most people will refuse to comprehend it. Able-bodied people are always the first to eagerly dismiss something as “ableist” and have no idea what monumental challenges we have to endure for a lifetime.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

Their refusal to learn isn’t our issue to correct. The work’s been done, they have to take up the mantle. Being disabled can absolutely suck, but it’s not the end of the world and it’s nothing to be ashamed of and I’m tired of people making it seem like it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

Speak for yourself, because that’s all you can do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

You said word for word that “being disabled is not a bad thing,” there is nothing you can say that will convince me to take a wannabe guru like you seriously 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

Because it’s not. Work on yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

I’m so tired of you ableist fucks.

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Anonymous 9h

theyre right and youre an awful person for that. you would support eugenics that much is clear

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8h

I don’t know a single parent that would knowingly take the risk there’s parenting then there’s parenting the disabled and it’s completely different

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8h

Good*

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8h

And if you cannot accept that ANY child could become disabled at any moment, then they’re not fit to be a parent.

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