Anonymous #1 1w

I can see where you got that from my statement, to be clear the “concept” of asexuality (and to a lesser degree demisexuality) is not in itself immature. However, I have not found an asexual/demisexual *person* that does not fit one of the two categories “traumatized” and/or “immature”

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Anonymous #2 1w

I guess I should’ve been more clear in my wording. It’s not necessarily that these sexualities = immature/traumatized. But I’m trying to say that I’ve never met someone that identified as one or the other sexuality and didn’t fit one or the other characteristic/experience(s).

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Anonymous OP 1w

You basically said the same thing without explaining how it correlates to immaturity…

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Anonymous OP 1w

like what does immaturity mean to you & how do asexual individuals display said immaturity?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Right I repeated my statement in a different way because I was trying to demonstrate that you’ve misunderstood my post. I don’t see any reason to answer a question about an opinion I’ve neither taken or hold

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Anonymous OP 1w

It’s because you can’t even elaborate. I asked very clear questions lol

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Anonymous #2 1w

To be even more clear: you are asking a question that is not relevant to my post or has anything to do with it. I am not equating the two.

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Anonymous OP 1w

It quite literally does you just don’t have a solid stance

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Anonymous #2 1w

I stated an observation that is not objective or gives any strict definition of “asexuality=immature”. You asked me a question about an objective statement, my statement is not objective, therefore your question is irrelevant

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Anonymous #2 1w

You’re also wholly ignoring the other classification of “traumatized”. Why is that? Does this feel like a personal attack and that’s why you’re refusing to properly read my words?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Because I understand how trauma can relate to asexuality that’s pretty self explanatory but I’m confused how it relates to immaturity.. which you don’t seem to be able to explain

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Anonymous #2 1w

Ok, let’s frame it in a way that you will understand then: sexual trauma -> childhood regression -> aversion to sex due to “immaturity”. Just one example of how this can be a correlation but, again, I am not claiming it is equal whatsoever or in any of this have I said that. You asked a disingenuous question.

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Anonymous OP 1w

But what I *have* claimed is that I’ve seen asexual people always be immature *or* traumatized. Never did I imply one over the other in frequency, and so now I will clarify that: I generally only really ever see the traumatized type for asexual people. Even in my “immature” example, you’d only know their trauma through knowing they were in childhood regression rather than *actually* immature. But it can still be perceived as immaturity

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