Anonymous #1 3w

I’m good, I have friends who I love. They just actually match my effort in the friendship. Unless my friend lives in another country, I like seeing my friends in person at least every other month. If y’all wanna see your friends annually good for you but that’s an acquaintance to me & im not putting in much effort 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 3w

That’s on you for not putting in the effort

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Anonymous #1 3w

If someone can’t make time to spend time with me that’s not my friend unless they’re going through a major life event. Idc if we’re adults. All of us are busy, tired & most of us are in relationships. But I prioritize those that prioritize me. God forbid I don’t wanna text constantly & actually see people face to face lol.

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Anonymous #1 3w

Nah I just don’t beg people to hang out with me. I put in effort to those that match my energy. But if someone only wants to see me 1-2 a year that’s my acquaintance not friend. Why would I prioritize someone like that lmao

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Anonymous OP 2w

If you say you won’t put in much effort, formerly, or maybe even come to considering that maybe the other person is going through something, then you do not deserve their time

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Anonymous #1 2w

Maybe you should read. I said unless they’re going through a major life event. & I always put effort in the beginning, if it’s not matched then I withdrawal my effort. Not so hard to comprehend. Unless you’re saying I should stay in one sided friendships? 🙄

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Anonymous OP 2w

Didn’t say that, but you can make up whatever sentence you want to justify what you think, doesn’t bother me. At the end of the day, it’s on you.

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Anonymous #1 2w

idk why you’re trying to sit here & convince me that I should prioritize people who don’t put in effort. takes 2 people to build a friendship!

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Anonymous OP 2w

It takes two, but you lose interest so it won’t work regardless by your definition. I can’t convince someone who refuses to listen, so you won’t change no matter what I state.

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