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Confessions 11w
i feel like I can’t get into a relationship til im perfect and my confidence sucks
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Anonymous 11w

Perfection doesn’t exist, I do think working on yourself isn’t a bad thing by any means but chasing an impossible goal isn’t going to help Once you feel somewhat comfortable you should be fine, and you can always improve later it’s not a one off event And you’d be surprised how many people think the same way, self confidence alone is hard

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