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If you’re young & inexperienced with sub/dom relationships PLEASE don’t listen to potentially abusive “doms” who treat you like this This type of kink is not something I’d even recommend for casual hookups as giving someone that level of control 🧵
Being a “Dom” does not mean projecting your kink on random women. Gross AF.
1299 upvotes, 28 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "Being a “Dom” does not mean projecting your kink on random women. Gross AF."
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Anonymous 2w

🧵 This is coming from someone who has been a member of the kink community for over a decade. Most people in the community agree that this kind of relationship has to be with someone you know well enough to trust. Not some random guy who has a fetish for controlling women & will definitely take advantage of you & force you into doing things you may not be comfortable with.

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Anonymous 2w

LOL not everyone is a pathetic vanilla virgin like you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

You can be kinky and still communicate and establish boundaries. In fact, it’s VITAL that you do so. If you push a dynamic onto someone without asking and discussing their comfort first, you’re not a dom, you’re just abusive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

You really don’t get it do you? If I find a willing young girl what’s it got to do with you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

The example above is not how you find “a willing young girl.” She told the anon she was uninterested and he responded with a graphic sexual fantasy. That’s not finding a willing partner, that’s harassing someone who’s already told you no.

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