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i want to break up with my boyfriend bc he’s mean to me but i’m scared nobody else will love me. can someone convince me otherwise 😿😿
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Anonymous 2w

From someone who’s stuck in a miserable marriage due to our family beliefs and my kids please leave now while it’s easy. Ask yourself, do you really see yourself being treated this way for the rest of your life?

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Anonymous 2w

Staying somewhere out of fear of not finding else isn’t the best strategy as it’ll slowly diminish your light. I say this with a lot of love, if he’s not right for you, leave. And it’s okay if you don’t find someone immediately. Being single isn’t that bad, I know social media makes it look that way. It’s a powerful moment to look inwards and heal and grow and then to find someone BETTER. At least in my case, I kept making the same mistakes until I did. Protect you energy first and always!

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Anonymous 2w

Just leave. Seriously. Every moment you stay with him, you're passing up ppl who would actually treat you right. Plus being alone and at peace is SIGNIFICANTLY better than having a bf who's actively making your life worse.

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Anonymous 2w

Having thoughts that you wanna break up should be all you need. I don’t understand why people so often try so hard to be with someone that’s clearly not right for them

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Anonymous 2w

You got this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Couldn’t agree more. Leave while you can. Also kudos to you for staying there looking for the kids. I’m sure it’s not easy. But you’ll be rewarded for your pain.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

From personal experience: staying with someone you’re miserable with for “the sake of the kids” isn’t always a good idea. More times than not that bad relationship bleeds over into the kids who then end up with childhood trauma because of their parents thinking they were doing the right thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Definitely! I think it can be a very grey area. Like, if the parents can simulate a healthy environment that might be good enough. If it’s toxic then leaving is probably best. If the kids are older that might be okay. I guess it goes by case by case basis. But definitely if there is abuse or anything crazy, run. My dad left my mom after trying to help her with her drug abuse. He chose me. Raised me. It caused turmoil I won’t lie, but I grew to understand it eventually.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

it’s just so scary

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Unfortunately due to my specific circumstances leaving him would mean without ANY doubt that both sides of our family would have nothing to do with the kids should I manage to keep them and they don’t deserve that right now. I’ll just stick it out with a smile on my face until they’re teens and old enough to understand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

And that’s the part where I say, hell yeah momma. I’m sorry you have to deal with that, but I applaud you for looking for the kids first. Just always stay safe!!

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