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Confessions 11w
victim sympathy is harmful
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Anonymous 11w

Totally valid, people mean well but are so mindless with how they speak and it just exacerbates pain

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Anonymous 11w

i actually am very inclined to not elaborate on this one because it’s affected multiple people i know 🙂

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Anonymous 11w

What does this mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

alright so for example let’s say i’m a victim of r*pe or cheating in a relationship, the last thing i’d want to hear is something like awww you were a victim:((( there there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

like unless i’m upfront and vulnerable talking about how it was harmful to me and stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

tbh yeah we don’t want to be labeled or treated different due to what happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

exactomento

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Ohh ok I get what u mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

yes exactly

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