Anonymous #2 3d

Elaborate

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Anonymous #2 3d

The men who are too scared to approach (like the ones being talked about in this post) are not the same men who are sexually harassing you. Hope this helps! -a fellow woman

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Anonymous #4 3d

what I’m saying is that it’s a bad idea to broadly encourage men to approach unfamiliar women in public just to hit on them when many of us do not want to be hit on by strangers on the street At All, Whatsoever

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Anonymous #5 3d

uhhh word-for-word the post is “as a woman, please approach us” and “80% of the time men never approach us”—nothing was said about specifically timid guys or whatever, some of us are in fact approached constantly and are sick to death of it. this being the case, naturally I think it’s naive and sorely misguided to simply tell men they Should approach women in public in pursuit of romantic or sexual attention. hope this explanation breaks past your reading comprehension issue

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Anonymous #2 3d

Yeah okay so what do they do instead?

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Anonymous #7 3d

The nice ones yes! The girls who make you feel crappy about yourself don’t deserve you going up to them!!!

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Anonymous OP 3d

I’ll do my best.

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Anonymous #6 3d

buddy, there’s an entire world out there full of opportunities for organic ways to meet new people who Want to spark new relationships. I’ve been in several relationships of varying seriousness with all kinds of genders and not once did those result from either of us pestering the other person as a stranger on the street. men can figure that shit out for themselves too

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Anonymous #2 3d

I’m not saying they should “sexually harass you on the street” I shouldve said what do you suggest they do instead of go up to you

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Anonymous #6 3d

But yeah meeting people naturally like you said is a great way to

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Anonymous #6 3d

?? idk man, mind their own business and go about their day as they normally would? develop enough worldly awareness to Not presume that their attraction to me means they should be entitled to my time and attention? mature into not viewing all female strangers as potential sexual partners?

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Anonymous #2 3d

Alright girl lol relax. Obviously that’s not what was being pointed to. There’s no need to sound all offended lol

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Anonymous OP 3d

Thank you. I was just asking a question

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Anonymous OP 3d

I’m fine, babe. your post just sucks, full stop, and I’m pretty embarrassed on behalf of these men who apparently don’t understand how to form a relationship without haranguing strangers

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Anonymous #2 3d

No one is saying anything about that but you

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Anonymous #6 3d

bruh. approaching an unfamiliar woman to hit on her, i.e. the topic of the entire post, is in fact haranguing a stranger. obviously. and you were the one who needed it explained to you what the alternative was 😭 please keep up if you’re gonna try to engage

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Anonymous #2 3d

Not sure you know what that means to harangue someone but if that is truly what happens to you 99% of the time then sorry. Maybe you should try approaching guys since it’s only allowed for girls and not guys

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Anonymous #6 3d

😭😭😭 please, why the hell would I want to hit on male strangers in public? I already expressed that I don’t have trouble finding people to date via the appropriate venues, and I personally don’t view total randos going about their day through the lens of “ooh, let’s see if I can fuck him”… you seem worryingly obtuse, I hope this is something you grow out of

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Anonymous #6 3d

and to be clear, what makes it “haranguing” is that a vast majority of men “approaching” me at random don’t respect my autonomy & boundaries enough to gracefully accept a rejection and drop the subject, so it turns into a whole confrontation unnecessarily. not all that different from your unwillingness to just say “got it, that makes sense” and move on from this exchange, funnily enough

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Anonymous #2 3d

“Funnily enough” I would’ve if that’s what you said in the first place. You’ve only mentioned men simply approaching you and your assumption that all these men want to use you sexually. You are just so closed minded that you overreacted to a simple question

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Anonymous #6 3d

your unwillingness to take what I’m saying at face value is not an issue of me failing to articulate my stance lol. I maintain that I don’t want to be “approached” by strangers in public with romantic or sexual intent in the first place, very many women feel this way, and I only went any deeper than that because you got so tripped up on my usage of the word “harangue”. you’re certainly not doing your gender’s reputation any favors and I won’t be engaging with you any further. good luck out there

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Anonymous #2 3d

And what gender do you think I am. This is gonna be funny when you realize 🤯

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Anonymous #8 3d

No fr I have gotten accused of stuff because THEY APPROACHED ME and realized they messed up cheating on their partner and said that I forced them… How was I supposed to know you were in a relationship when you came up to me and you made the first move by kissing me??

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Anonymous #10 3d

me too-

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