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I got drunk, did not wear a condom, got a girl I had been dating for 2 weeks pregnant, she did not want to abort, I refuse to allow my child to not have a father, she said "Either marry me or get out of my life" ...
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Anonymous 1d

I refused. I did not marry her. Right now I pay for our rent and got her to apply for and get into nursing school. I'm helping her study through nursing, and I'll help her get a job. Then I'm leaving. Our daughter is beautiful and healthy, and I love her. I don't want my life to be over because of this, but I worry it will be hard for me to actually find love someday.

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Anonymous 1d

Thanks for being a man and stepping up.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I'm mot leaving our daughter btw. Just plan to leave my partner in her own space to live her own life (after she can actually pay for it on her own)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

My hope is that we'll be able to co-parent as peacefully as we can manage

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It's painful, I wanted to blame other things at first (alcohol, her, the church, god...) It's just me. It's my fault. And I am the only one who can control my actions and make it worse, or make it better. Hey I have a healthy kid, some people pay millions to make that happen! She is beautiful, I love her, and I loon forward to putting her to bed and reading to her every night. My heart aches because I wish I was in love with my partner but I am not.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I think it is very honorable that you stayed with your daughter and love her, but she deserves a healthy home. You gave to talk to your partner so you can both move on and find happiness

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Agreed. Unfortunately money is needed for survival, and I want my daughter's mom to be a good financially independent example for my daughter. That is why I'm not leaving until my partner gets through nursing school and gets a job. She needs to not need me

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