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broke up with my bf bc i don’t think interracial dating is for me tbh
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Anonymous 4d

I don’t blame you, it’s definitely tough to navigate. I almost broke up with mine too due to the racial differences

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Anonymous 4d

i loved him so much but it just caused me unnecessary stress and i think i would’ve felt more secure and less judged with someone that looks like me, it’s draining as hell

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Anonymous 4d

i’m black and my boyfriend is white and what other people think is the least of my worries focusing on your individual lives and how yall can grow together is the most important thing i’m sorry that you’ve faced a lot of stress regarding that but i don’t think you should throw away something that means a lot to you (also black woman/white male marriages divorce way less often than any other race couples ;) )

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Anonymous 4d

Not trying to defend your ex, I don’t know the specifics but the last time I dated a black girl I felt a little uncomfortable bringing up those topics since it felt like I didn’t really have any room to say anything about and could only offer sympathy.

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Anonymous 4d

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

ppl are racist as fuck these days, he always acts oblivious to the shit i face as a black woman. the stares. i’m good tbh. i think if he was at least a POC he’d be more understanding

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

what’s yall race

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

yea but he’s so ignorant to racism and politics it wasn’t for me🤷🏽 , once you don’t care about politics, idc about you! happy for you tho i know this isn’t every interracial couple

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I’m black he’s white

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

i don’t think you’re necessarily wrong for that but seems like OP personally needs someone who can give more support than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

I’m not trying to get with OP just saying that maybe they needed to start the conversation about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

i’m not saying you were just that ignorance isn’t necessarily anyone’s fault but it can sometimes be a dealbreaker

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

which is valid. it gets exhausting having to explain the things that we deal with on the daily. so i’d rather be with someone who already knows or has an idea.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

literally. acts oblivious as he fucking witnesses it or doesn’t have social media 💀

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