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Confessions 6d
it scares me so much that i could be in a 2-4 year relationship with someone and know each other so intimately but that it just might not work out. genuine worst fear ☹️
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Anonymous 6d

No literally like I think I would be so distraught for years

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Anonymous 6d

i dated a guy for 2 years to figure out he wanted to switch and be transgender while still in the relationship. he guilt tripped me telling me if i broke up with him over it he wouldn’t do it like how do u come back from that. ( i’m not judging him i told him i would be his friend just not his gf)

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Anonymous 6d

Was with my ex for 2 years straight. Did everything with him; did everything for him. Love lost is never love wasted in my eyes and while it’s been a year and a half and I still wish to wake up to his message, I accept the fact that he shouldn’t be forced to be with me, I want him to go where he feels loved and if that’s not with me then run for the hills my baby! ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

it would put me out of commission indefinitely

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

No way I would trust a girl or anyone that deeply and then like “it’s over’ whattt. Like I get after a couple weeks or month tops u see the cracks forming and bail but years???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

it could be that you’re a really good match but you just have different life plans that create friction, like wanting to travel a lot vs preferring to stay close to home or family planning differences.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I know I know it’s just like 😟

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