4.5 years for me, realized he doesn’t even really think i’m all that the way other men do (who have more to bring to the table) and then i realized my entire future was planned around his comfort and job opportunities but we still together

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I went through the same thing and honestly u js gotta break it off cs if u keep forcing urself to be around him even if u dont like him eventually you’ll start disliking him and that’ll grow into hatred. If u ever loved this man you’ll have enough respect to let him go even if u think it hurts him

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