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Confessions 4w
idk where to post this question, happened couple years ago and i still don’t know what to think, if a girl is trying to take you and like she can’t but she tries harder and it hurts her and you tell her to stop and she’s determined, wtf do you do?
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Anonymous 4w

like i told her to stop but she keeps trying more and more like her moving her body like what do you do in that situation

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Anonymous 4w

See if you can get her looser

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Anonymous 4w

were u guys using proper lube? if you're bigger she has to be like super wet, and you could also try "stretching" her out with toys or even your fingers first- even if its 4 of them

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Anonymous 4w

Were you on her cervix? Like that’s kinna weird she kept trying to go lower if she couldn’t feel you on her cervix? If you were on it she physically could not push any lower into you unless you somehow pushed through into her uterus.

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Anonymous 4w

I think that’s called like vaganisim or something like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

girth is always the problem for me but this wasn’t the case like she just kept on trying to go down and she just couldn’t like body limits so i still don’t know what to do if i ever get into that situation again with a different girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like the problem was with her knees?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ohhh small vaginal cavity. Y’all might have to deal with u not being all the way in

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

that’s what i’m saying, like she was trying to fit more like i knew no more was going to fit but she was like super determination, like what do i do there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

was not a girth problem, like she fit me in after proper lube but i just never like bottomed out and sh was trying and the length was too much i guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

yeah no i was on her cervix and she would try to readjust but still kept going to the same place, the cervix is why it was hurting her but she kept on saying like no i can do more but it wasn’t going anywhere, idk i feel bad, i jus need to know what to do if this ever happens in the future again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If you said stop, she should have stopped imo. Maybe she found it arousing to keep trying, but if it made you uncomfortable you can always stop. I’m not a man but I would have pulled out and told her you asked to stop.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

i only said to stop because it was hurting her like it still felt good for me but i didn’t want to cause more pain to her yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah but stop still means stop. If you’re concerned for her even if you’re feeling good it’s always a good idea to stop and reevaluate what to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

She could seriously hurt herself doing something like that so your concern is valid. Also don’t feel like because you’re the man you should keep going. You can stop and resend consent anytime you want or need to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

yeah that’s what i did like we stopped and she was like i could’ve kept going like she was still my gf at the time but she was mad at me for it for like 2 weeks, i just want to know if i did the right thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I think you did, sex should never be dangerous enough for someone to get seriously hurt imo. Idk much about dangerous sexual practices but there are huge safeties involved for a reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

well thank you, in that case i’ll do the same thing i did if it ever happens again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You’re welcome love. Please be safe 🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

That was not the problem. It was a length problem, not a girth problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I was ask her if it hurts and if she likes that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Vagismus i believe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I feel like ur fishing for a specific answer but I have no idea what ur fishing for so like idk just ask her what she’s chill w respect her boundaries if ur having vaginal sex be ok with it not being fully in maybe get a cock ring meant for stimulation idfk man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

3 already answered man but thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

so she did like the pain but at the same time like tears in her eyes so that’s why i was wtf

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