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Anyone else get super uncomfortable when you're talking to someone to see if you're compatible and they keep saying freaky stuff? Like i get you're attracted to me but idk anything about you please idk if i want to even kiss you yet 😭
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Anonymous 1d

Do u tell them

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

I usually just dont engage with it or change the subject to give them a chance to maybe pick up on my vibe a little, if they dont get the hint i say hey im not ready for a physical connection before a strong emotional one and then when they eventually try pushing back on that its an instant block.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

LMAOO that’s mad funny. I respect this a lot ! Sucks some people can’t pick up a vibe but yeah u did ur part 💯

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

I give lots of opportunities but once a boundary is crossed im not wasting my time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I wish I had that much self respect

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

It comes from getting abused :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I got abused too and I didn’t get that skill, I just got the humor 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

Well once you get blamed enough for bad things happening to you, you try to avoid getting yourself into those situations at all because you start to believe that you're the problem and it must be something you're doing wrong. Then you're alone :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Also i find it funny we are getting along in this post and then the post i made 5 mins earlier you're trying to roast me for finding a guy who respects my boundaries lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I wasn’t trying to roast you gang 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

You basically said i have low standards

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