my (ldr) bf always get soft like instantly when we’re not actively doing something during online sexy time but irl he stays hard all the way through no matter what and even gets hard at random times… is this normal 😭
I always get more turned on when I’m actively around my girl. If we’re on the phone or something it’s still good but definitely nowhere near as good as being with her.
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Anonymous18h
People are different sometimes. I don’t think it’s a big deal. Hope this isn’t tmi but for me personally I’m kind of the reverse because in person sex is more exerting. Guys getting hard at random times is definitely normal though.
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Anonymous18h
He’s probably jerking off a lot when he’s not with you, that can cause some performance issues
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Anonymous#118h
i don’t think so 🫠 i call him the second he gets off work and whenever he is at home including when he goes to sleep and it would be very easy to tell when he goes to masturbate unless he’s masturbating at work
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Anonymous#218h
like i get it but at the same time when it comes to online vs offline, online i don’t instantly get unaroused when something is not happening for a could seconds, thats why i personally don’t get it
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AnonymousOP18h
It’s probably his own personal routine while masturbating. Everyone’s a little different when it comes to that