
Find a place to live with your grandparents or something and save up money and escape or propose you want a strong relationship with your dad and that it would me a lot of he went to therapy with you so his ego isn’t bruised and it’s a team effort. I’m sure your family will be on board with you cause that shows you’re “trying to get over it”.
Like they can’t be like no therapy cause it shows you’re working on “getting over it”. But then it reality the therapist will hopefully have an objective view and knock some sense into your dad and you’ll get an outside perspective telling him that’s abuse. And now you have someone on your team
Again I’m so sorry I’ve dealt with a father this bad my entire life and family in denial. even though my dad literally use to beat my mom all the time. So I get you 100% and you’ll eventually be gone from people who don’t support you. I support you though and objectively not okay behavior from him and he should be doing a lot more than just saying sorry
Thanks.Tbh they are both genuinely crazy. And they said they were going to a psychiatrist which turned out to be a therapist and only my mom going. And of course they made themselves seem all good because they made it seem like he said they have done nothing wrong and that I have adhd which is why i dont want to talk to them. I dont have it or any symptoms of it. So idk