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My father attacked me in January. In which he tackled me to the ground. Knelt down on my neck with his full body weight. And bit my hand so hard it bled and I had bite marked shaped bruises and now a permanent scar. Gave me a concussion & sprainedmyneck.
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Anonymous 5w

Anyway I know have ptsd from the situation and my family says i need to get over it. My “father” also said he wished he had done it sooner. This all was because he thought I left the garage door open but it was from my sister.

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah your family sucks no reason for him to do that that’s abuse and manipulation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If youre 21 get a pistol/concealed carry so the next time this happens you can just kill him in self defense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

yeah i’m sure buying a pistol and shooting your father because a yikyak comment told you too is going to do wonders for their trauma and mental health

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Find a place to live with your grandparents or something and save up money and escape or propose you want a strong relationship with your dad and that it would me a lot of he went to therapy with you so his ego isn’t bruised and it’s a team effort. I’m sure your family will be on board with you cause that shows you’re “trying to get over it”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Like they can’t be like no therapy cause it shows you’re working on “getting over it”. But then it reality the therapist will hopefully have an objective view and knock some sense into your dad and you’ll get an outside perspective telling him that’s abuse. And now you have someone on your team

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Again I’m so sorry I’ve dealt with a father this bad my entire life and family in denial. even though my dad literally use to beat my mom all the time. So I get you 100% and you’ll eventually be gone from people who don’t support you. I support you though and objectively not okay behavior from him and he should be doing a lot more than just saying sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

#2 is very correct but do not be afraid to defend yourself also

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Your dad also has a small dick and is coping can almost guarantee abusing you gives him a power trip and makes him feel like a man,disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Thanks.Tbh they are both genuinely crazy. And they said they were going to a psychiatrist which turned out to be a therapist and only my mom going. And of course they made themselves seem all good because they made it seem like he said they have done nothing wrong and that I have adhd which is why i dont want to talk to them. I dont have it or any symptoms of it. So idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Wild comment tbh. Will not be buying and carring a gun bruv

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Haha. Yes this is actually what i did. I stayed with my aunt who actually belived me sort of. But didnt want to choose sides ig? And then they begged me to come back for months and I was like no not until you ditch your narcissistic crazy hubby

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