Confessions on Sidechat | If an immediate negative response because everyone is misinterpreting what you said, it means you worded your point poorly. Take a deep breath and just explain yourself calmly. Getting defensive helps no one.

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Confessions 3w

If an immediate negative response because everyone is misinterpreting what you said, it means you worded your point poorly. Take a deep breath and just explain yourself calmly. Getting defensive helps no one.

Anonymous 3w

My problem is I'll start saying 'Wait I'm having trouble getting my point across properly, my words aren't flowing right, we're stuck in a miscommunication loop' or something and keep exacerbating the issue 😭 I have serious 'Say literally everything out loud' disease

Anonymous 3w

*if you get an immediate negative response Goddamn I can’t type today

Anonymous

#1 3w

Like I very clearly communicate everything, but people aren't used to that, and they still react badly 'I'm so sorry that it came off like xyz, clearly that came off as a slight, I didn't mean it that way at all, you're super valid, I meant moreso abc' and they still be mad as hell

Anonymous

#1 3w

Real as fuck, this is also how I communicate and people do absolutely get pissed still. I’m more talking about like a whole group of people misinterpreting a statement, because then the common denominator is the original statement and the person who made it. What you’re talking about (over explaining and still being misunderstood) usually happens to me in 1 on 1 conversation.

Anonymous

OP 3w

I also have “say everything out loud disease” btw but in my case they call is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder lmao