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I’ll never understand why my friends don’t find black girls attractive, y’all fine asf.
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Anonymous 1w

Me when I don’t understand preferences

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Anonymous 1w

They’re attractive but im just not attracted to them. I like Hispanics and white girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

there’s a difference between preference and then saying “yea i don’t think black girls are hot, id never date one”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

that’s a contradiction and this is most likely just ur own bias

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

No it’s not. You can find someone attractive yet not want to be w them. Everyone is pretty but that doesn’t mean they’re my type. I’m Hispanic girl so I like Hispanics and white girls. I’ve had this type since I was little.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

so you don't feel like u want to examine why that bias exists? its the same thing (and some times worse) to say you find a group of people attractive but you would never date them. there are black hispanics. culturally i would understand but just based off of appearance, you might have some biases.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

No because I don’t care. I have my own preferences just like you do. I know lots of black people that only date within their race because that’s who they are attracted to. I don’t owe anyone anything. Why force someone to be with someone they don’t want

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

you shouldn't be with someone you don't want to be with and i'm not forcing you to date anyone, i don't even know you. i'm simply saying that you should examine why you have that preference because a lot of times you are socialized (especially from a young age) to be bias against different races. i’m a black girl and i’ve only ever dated white men and i acknowledge that my preferences are from things i grew up around but they don’t have to be a hard barrier

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