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it’s impossible to have guy friends. all they do is just eventually get jealous and treat you like crap or give u the silent treatment
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Anonymous 1d

omg i know it feels so discouraging because it makes you realize how objectifying “male friendship” is

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Anonymous 1d

just because you’re attracted to me doesn’t mean i feel the same way. maybe we’d get along if u lowered ur ego

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Anonymous 1d

no deadass like rlly ur gonna be distant and weird now cause i don’t wanna fuck you? respecting her answer doesn’t make you a good guy if you make her feel like shit for it afterward:

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Anonymous 1d

just be friends with guys that aren’t attracted to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

OH MY GOSH YES like dude that shit enrages me. just bc u send me sexual reels, doesn’t mean it’s gonna sway my answer or my feelings abt u. and now u wanna start being weird or a bitch bc u see that im seeing other guys? gtfo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

that’s hard. men typically don’t pay mind to women they aren’t attracted to. typically bc they primarily prioritize looks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i never get it when yall say this like for best friends maybe but regular friends i feel like i have a solid amount within friend groups idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

are u a dude?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

no lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

maybe u just don’t experience it then. i feel like it mainly happens for more attractive women bc at the point, almost everyone is objectifying u or talking abt ur looks tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

if anything it’s maybe bc i’m black at a pwi cuz i ain’t never had this experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

and only time i did was with a poc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

oh shoot girl i’m sorry. i’m also black at a pwi and dudes deadass lust and fetishize over me so often it’s so gross

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

its chill i just removed myself from the dating world entirely for now while im here i chose peace

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