
Fair. I think there’s some things you can do to help like understanding the signs of when a guy might be into you. It’s helped me a lot in trying to figure out if a girl is into me. Though the one I’m talking to right now has really thrown me for a loop I can’t tell 😴. But I think in general seeking genuine connections first helps you meet a wide variety of people.
Like having something interesting on you, or presenting a friendly demeanor to everyone around you makes you more approachable. I met this one girl who’s a barista purely because she waved at me when I would walk everyday by there to the bathroom. Simple stuff that tells the guy “yes I want you to talk to me” that is clear enough for them to notice