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I’m so depressed i don’t have a boyfriend and never had one before. Like guys like me I’m just so fucking shy it’s ridiculous. I am in my prime and wasting away my years
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Anonymous 1w

What’s got you scared?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Rejection / I just have social anxirty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Fair. I think there’s some things you can do to help like understanding the signs of when a guy might be into you. It’s helped me a lot in trying to figure out if a girl is into me. Though the one I’m talking to right now has really thrown me for a loop I can’t tell 😴. But I think in general seeking genuine connections first helps you meet a wide variety of people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Like having something interesting on you, or presenting a friendly demeanor to everyone around you makes you more approachable. I met this one girl who’s a barista purely because she waved at me when I would walk everyday by there to the bathroom. Simple stuff that tells the guy “yes I want you to talk to me” that is clear enough for them to notice

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