Anonymous #1 1d

I don’t really have any money to combine with his. He just said he’d take care of everything until I was able to get a job

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Anonymous OP 23h

i was in a situation like this. <TW> He was hot, funny, rich, great in bed & said he saw a future w me, so i moved in. One night 3 months later, he drunkenly beat/strangled me. But i was still in undergrad... so broke, jobless, and now injured, my 1 choice was to stay 8 more months. If it weren't for several divine interventions, id be six feet under. Idk ur situation but i hope mine might help u appreciate how vulnerable youll be for a man you dont fully know. Best of luck

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Anonymous #2 23h

I’m really sorry that happened to you. I don’t think it’s going to happen to me though. We’ve only recently become romantically involved but he’s been a close friend since childhood. I’ve known him about 20 years. I might be vulnerable, but I know him super well and I completely trust him not to hurt me

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Anonymous OP 23h

I get that, i felt the same way though girl. I had known him for 10 years and he was a good family friend, I had never even seen him angry before. Just be careful. Its hard to get out of once youre in it, and being in love with the guy certainly doesn't make it any easier. Thank you for hearing me out, i just want the best for u🫶 Would you be willing to say how old you guys are? If not its chill but it feels relevant

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Anonymous #2 23h

I’m 23 and he’s 25. Does that make any difference?

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Anonymous OP 23h

Thats promising!! Mine was like, 18f and 28m. Which was pretty insane from the start, but looking back im appalled lol. But anyway, im so happy for you and i hope it works out great for all involved(: 🫶✌️

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Anonymous #2 22h

You raised a point I wasn’t thinking of when I commented although I’ve seen several true crime shows where the couple had known each other since childhood just like your example.

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