
I'm a man, I have male friends. I don't understand why but these things seem to make men go nuts and they are contradictory. Be terrible to him, be wonderful to him, ignore him, act like you are better than him, act like you worship him, be so bad at something critical to your success that he is good at, be better than him at something he aspires to be, be sexually pure (A virgin), be sexually animalistic, be super popular, be totally aloof and unknown/mysterious.