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Hot take but there is no ethical way to have more than 2-3 children
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Anonymous 1d

as the oldest of 5 neurodivergent kids, AMEN. i wish i was brave enoigh to tell my parents to close they fuckin legs

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Anonymous 1d

That a poor take and misinformed

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Anonymous 1d

As an oldest of 7, that’s definitely a hot takes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

not misinformed, speaking from a different experience. I don’t believe there’s a way for two parents (especially now and days with both having to work) to give every kid the attention they truly deserve if there’s more than three. The duties slip and fall onto the eldest, a job and responsibility they never asked for

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Anonymous replying to -> its_pinkie_pie 1d

i’m glad you don’t agree, in my experience the eldest takes on a lot of responsibility that’s incredibly unfair and taxing

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