Anonymous #1 1d

oh so you made the decision for her. #fumbled.

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Anonymous OP 1d

yeah i guess you’re right, i don’t consider it fumbling since i know she’ll be better off

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Anonymous #1 1d

is she better off tho?

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Anonymous OP 1d

100%, she didn’t know what she wanted and i did so instead of putting someone in a position i just let them go so hopefully they can find what makes them happy

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Anonymous #1 1d

so she’s happy now? did she find her person?

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Anonymous OP 1d

i don’t know yet, just said it today, hopefully she does but idk if she wants her person just yet like she wants to go out and do stuff so maybe not the time for that just yet, i wanted to be her person and i came on way too strong so i had a realization and just said it’s for the best because you never wanna put someone in a corner between you and what they actually want even if they don’t know what that is yet

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Anonymous #1 1d

you cant make a decision for her if she didn’t tell you that herself. personally it seems you did it for your own good so that you dont get your heart broken. i think thats selfish. if she hasn’t communicated to you that she doesn’t want to be with you anymore what right fo you have to make that decision for her?

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Anonymous OP 1d

dude she blocked me for a week and then told me she didn’t know what she wanted. i don’t know how else to put that. the actions speak for itself like she left first and came back because she missed me and then i pretty much told her i wasn’t what she was looking for so i hope she’s happy with whoever she finds because i fell hard and then the block happened and i landed and it hurt like fuck and then i just lost everything when she told me i came on too strong at first, so regardless this is

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Anonymous #1 1d

for the best so the cycle does not repeat

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Anonymous #1 1d

oh okay thats fair. you felt like she was leading you on? which makes sense why you reacted that way. walls are up and you dont wanna get hurt again. understandable.

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Anonymous OP 1d

she’s also on this app and this group, if i knew she was awake i also would not be saying any of this but i really needed to get this off my chest, if you had to put a scale to this like she is the baddest person i will probably ever meet in my life like i don’t think anyone will ever be at that level and it wasn’t just the looks it was then voice and the personality like dude she fucked with my feelings HARD, but c’est la vie, life goes on

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Anonymous #1 1d

like she made the decision with the block because it was too much and then i just shut the box closed because my health is all over the place and i don’t know the future and id rather say goodbye then maybe one day not ever answer again even though now i am hating myself for that decision

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Anonymous #1 1d

well im sorry you went through that. and im glad you put yourself first. i hope you feel better. its gonna take time and you should make sure yo actually take the time to heal and focus on you. <3

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Anonymous OP 1d

so did i fumble? yes in a sense. do i regret it? yeah i do. will i ever get another chance with her? absofuckinglutely not. i fucked myself being respectful to the very end and i made my bed so now i have to lay in it

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Anonymous #1 1d

no you know what? she fumbled. you seem like a great person and for her to block you and then unblock you and then tell you that she doesn’t know what she wants is not fair to you at all. you will find your person trust me and i know thats very cliche and everyone says that but there’s a reason why there are 8 billion of us. she played with your feelings and you were respectful to you AND her and you let her go. thats very rare these days unfortunately. so good on you for doing that.

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Anonymous OP 1d

some day some girl will see your worth.

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Anonymous OP 1d

yeah maybe some day but maybe not today, i love how you went from “you fumbled” to “she fumbled” i think that was funny

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Anonymous #1 1d

i know when im wrong and ill fix it lmao

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Anonymous OP 17h

He made that decision for HIMSELF, or what it’s up to her for him to leave her??

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