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I lowkey hate girls who love older guys. They be like 'men that are young suck' and 'men get better as they age' but it just reminds me of 'pick-me's and encourages grooming since those men always date girls below 25(mostly 18)
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Anonymous 3d

being a victim of grooming is not “encouraging” grooming, creep

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

What are you on?? I have seen like hundreds of girls posting edits, praising, and just doing aything they can to date a way older guy so how is me saying this behavior is toxic and should not be shared in a positive light, bad??!??? You must be an older creepy man that chases young girls if you hate awareness..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

you’re literally blaming young women for what you just described as them being groomed. obviously if they’re too young and naive to consent to dating a substantially older man then they’re also too young and naive to understand what’s wrong with “glorifying” the experience of being preyed on. textbook victim blaming on your end. use your fucking brain please

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I'm talking about 18+ women...NOT underage at all so they can definitely give consent but they are bringing harm to others by manuliplating them in a way to see this as "cool" or "trendy" or "a fairytale story"

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

so which is it, do you or do you not believe women under the age of 25 who date old men are being groomed? either that’s grooming (like you said in the post itself) and you’re victim-blaming… or it’s not grooming, which would mean that what they’re romanticizing isn’t grooming either. take your pick

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

either way, romanticizing your own individual experience isn’t actively manipulating anyone else. it sounds an awful lot like you’re just reaching for an excuse to shit on women who don’t want to date someone your age

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I don't even know what you are talking about?? I think you are 1000% into older guys and like usually they are toxic and weird...so my main point is: girls should date guys around their age and an extreme age gap is unhealthy, strange, and should not be promoted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

you said young women who are attracted to old men are encouraging grooming by nature of romanticizing their relationships with old men. then you said that what they’re romanticizing Isn’t grooming because they’re over 18. so I’m asking: which is it, you dumbass incel?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

do you want young women to be protected from exploitative older men? or do you hate them for being victims of exploitation. you don’t get to have it both ways. it’s really quite apparent that you’re just bitter and don’t give a shit about women being harmed

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