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I like my friend when she's single. Anytime she has a man I never see her
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Anonymous 1w

I’m afraid I do this. As soon as I’m in a relationship with someone I struggle to make time for myself anymore. I’ve lost a lot of friends this way but I don’t know how to stop and not be so attached.

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Anonymous 1w

Heyy

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Anonymous 1w

Damn my friends must feel this way 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ur a shitty friend then

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It's not cute, you're a bad friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I do my best to make time for everyone. I don’t just abandon them. I work full time and I’m getting my Masters degree and I’m married. I always make sure that they are okay and never cancel my plans with them even if I want to be with my husband. I don’t think that makes me a bad friend. That makes me an adult.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You must be a child

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I feel like that’s the most difficult thing for young people. I’m glad my husband gets to be apart of my friend groups and I get to be apart of his. But we also get to be independent and be with our friends alone. It’s takes time to detach a little bit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

The way you responded made i seem like you never check in on your friends, but from this you actually do so I doubt they feel that way about you. I'm engaged and actually just finished my finals week for my masters and work full time, trust I know.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I just meant I can be all consuming I do my best to check but I know I lack sometimes. They tell me when I do lack. Because I’m human I lack at times. But I do my best

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